Lesson learnt

I was wondering about important points to note in a relationships, and how people take them as. Following are some that i came across, which had made a difference in relationships. Had a litle chit chat with random people. I take them as lessons learnt.

- Love yourself first. If you didn’t, nobody would.
- Never let a man take control over you
- Let him win (even though you are best at it, just let him win, you won’t regret it)
- Do not give a 100% trust on him. He betrays you, you’d be happy you didn’t have that 100%.
- If you’re not sure, don’t let out the “love” word.
- Only love someone who loves you back
- Sex counts…a lot!
- The more you have in common, the more easier to get along
- Boredom is a problem u can’t overcome. So do not try to work it out with someone - who you cant have a conversation with.
- Once you find love, open up. Its healthy
- Set down the rules at the start of the game. You set yourself up for happiness unless you make your expectations clear from the beginning.
- If he did it to her, he’ll probly do it to you.
- If he wins, it doesn’t mean you lose. You just saved yourself some peace!
- Even though you know his daily routine, what he’s doin, you never know what he’s upto.
- If he left you for a reason, don’t bother going back. And even if you have the chance, take him into consideration attached with your rules. Don’t let him play with you again.
- If you love him like crazy, you’d probly treat him like a king – which is truly a mistake. He wud take you for granted and would forget wat you did for him. If you really wanna take the burden, you get nothing in return.
- Don’t expect him to come running after you, even if he’s the one who broke up.
- Don’t expect any miracles – like a “perfect man”
- Make the most of what you have. Love him dearly (only if that makes you happy). Who knows, when he’d want a change or take a break. You don’t get to love someone that often.
- He betrays you, yet you feel he’s at the urge to talk to you. It does not mean he regrets doing whatever he did (to leave you). He obviously feels sorry for you. This may hapn for a few days after he had done the deed. It would eventually stop after some time. You might think he’s trying to make up at first. But you’ll find out he’s just doingit out of guilt. Sory but not regret. He stops it, then you realize he’s not coming back! So much for the hope you had!